The fruit a tree produces it's the identity of that particular tree; as a human, the character you display is your true identity. As the Bible stated in Matthew 7:15-20, the fruits there weren't referring to the deeds alone; it also talked about the doctrine. Your words can be equated to your doctrines(teachings), and your deeds, which are your actions, must be aligned to attract the right people and things to yourself. Evaluation your life today. Are your words and deeds in alignment or not?

Indeed life is a journey. We have our various destinations, our destinations determine what we need to add to our luggage, and the training medical personnel will require is not as exact as a taxi driver likewise, an architect requires different qualification as the elementary school teacher, therefore don't evaluate your success by comparing yourself with others. As you are unique, so is your process.